Comments on: Why It’s Not Always All About Being Gay http://www.soymademegay.com/2008/04/why-its-not-always-all-about-being-gay/ Your "token gay" mormon blog. Thu, 11 Mar 2010 19:08:42 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Silver http://www.soymademegay.com/2008/04/why-its-not-always-all-about-being-gay/comment-page-1/#comment-43 Silver Mon, 09 Jun 2008 02:59:43 +0000 http://www.soymademegay.com/?p=13#comment-43 I really hope at some point it can be less of a focus, less self-focused for me. It's all I've thought about since my wife found out three years ago. I need to move on. She needs to move on. It just is, and it's okay. Overly focusing on it, causes problems. It's just the way my interest swings. I"m getting more comfortable with that. Hopefully it will help her to settle into a zone as well. Someday I need a new hobby before it's too late. My Bishop told me that. He asked what my hobby was, and all I could think of was sex. I need to get a new life. I really hope at some point it can be less of a focus, less self-focused for me. It’s all I’ve thought about since my wife found out three years ago. I need to move on. She needs to move on. It just is, and it’s okay.

Overly focusing on it, causes problems. It’s just the way my interest swings. I”m getting more comfortable with that. Hopefully it will help her to settle into a zone as well.

Someday I need a new hobby before it’s too late. My Bishop told me that. He asked what my hobby was, and all I could think of was sex. I need to get a new life.

]]> By: Kengo Biddles http://www.soymademegay.com/2008/04/why-its-not-always-all-about-being-gay/comment-page-1/#comment-10 Kengo Biddles Tue, 15 Apr 2008 14:08:50 +0000 http://www.soymademegay.com/?p=13#comment-10 I wish more people would react with an "Oh. Okay." That just somehow sits better than the "You're GAY!?!?!?!" reaction. But I like your point. I think that we should ALL stop fixating on our sexuality and just be people around other people. :) (I know, it's trite.) I wish more people would react with an “Oh. Okay.” That just somehow sits better than the “You’re GAY!?!?!?!” reaction. But I like your point. I think that we should ALL stop fixating on our sexuality and just be people around other people. :) (I know, it’s trite.)

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